In that case, we will all be in the same boat and we can enjoy the ride together I guess...!)
But... there is also one Very Big Risk, a very predictable one that we all can be sure of:
Recently I've learned that that forecasting our imminent collective demise has been a continuous tendency in American history from the very beginning (probably in human history, I venture to speculate). A sociology professor once told me about a book called "Endings," which shows how people have been predicting the imminent end of the world for a very long time, for millenia in fact.
And somehow we are still here.
So, what is our best course?
I'm not suggesting that we bury our heads in the sand, nor that we spend our money foolishly and extravagantly. And I realize I am in a better position than many, especially those who have lost jobs, homes, and/or health and have little or no savings. And no one seems to have all the answers. In any case, we each have to find our own way.
It's also the most natural thing for us, and quite learnable, even if you have a history of unhappiness.
I highly reommend a book for this,
Happy For No Reason. Also check out the online teachings of
Leonard Jacobson, about finding the still center within our being. I find it very helpful to listen his free A-V snippets while painting or cooking.
2. Exercise your Intentions: There's something magical about intention, as well as its obvious practical value. Somehow it seems to set things in motion. For example, at several pivotal, low and even scary moments in my life, I have noticed that a strongly-held intent to NOT go down a fearful path (or even for our society to go down such a path) and, instead, to stick to a positive course seems to have engendered serendipitous outer events, sometimes the same day. I could detail that, but for now, I just suggest:
try it, as an experiment. Treat your life as though God or some higher power lives inside you as you (and everyone) and wants the best for you and has the power and intent to create it. Simple enough, and definitely worth a try: what do you have to lose?
3. Keep your own counsel: don't get swayed by others' fears. I know it's tough out there. Many people are living on the edge, and nearly all of us have experienced some significant decline of income and savings, some much more than others. In some sense we are all in a collective experiment. And it's a number one topic right now.
As social beings, it's natural for us to look around and see what everyone else is thinking and predicting. But even if we look to expert opinions to predict where the economy (or the biosphere) is going, we will only find "mixed reviews," as always. Many forecast that things are going to get much worse. Others think we are beginning to recover. Others cite the old contrarian adage that the time to invest and to buy is when everyone is the gloomiest about any recovery ever happening: that signals the bottom of a cycle that has always gone back up.
The truth is, that
no one knows for sure what will happen tomorrow, either in our own lives or in the world.
(Most likely, the sun will come up and the earth will be spinning around it. Beyond that....?)
4. Take actions as needed to make things better, but be unattached to the outcome: it doesn't matter that much when you know where your true riches are: inside.
It's nice when things to well, but we must never lose sight of the fact that we can't count on the outer world to make us happy for very long. It's nature is ups and downs, gains and losses. So look for the lasting wealth. The greatest riches we have are those that increase the more we share them: the unconditional happiness, love, compassion and peace that we all seem to be capable of accessing deep inside.
Accessing those positive feelings requires that we learn to see our thoughts as just thought, and not important. On a daily basis. To see, deeply, and not just as an idea, that real life and real happiness is only found here and now, apart from any life circumstances. For most of us this is a lesson we seem to have to learn over and over again, but with practice, it becomes easier. With practice we can learn to live more in a calm peace that is apart from the push and pull of good/bad, like/dislike, fear/hope--- all those opposites. Like the grey that is the balance between opposites on the color wheel, this place of balance can hold all circustances with love and ease. Humans have found this peace often in the midst of the most trying of circumstances. If others can do it, we can do it.
5.
Welcome the good when it comes, from a calm perspective. The good news about not caring that much about what happens because you've found those deeper riches is that somehow this happy and unattached perspective seems to engender improvements outwardly: you get the job, you find the mate, you make the sale. Your body recovers. And so on.
That's been my experience for the most part, anyway, and lots of other folks report that as well. It's as those it harnesses the greater wisdom of Life itself, of God, of that mysterious Source of all that is, whatever we may call it. How about just "Universal Intelligence"? Whatever we call it, it surely exists in some manner as the organizing principles of life, and it is amazing.
Think about it. This mysterious force continuously creates the most incredibly complex and magnificent details and vastness of all life, not only on earth, but no doubt in countless other places throughout a universe that contains more stars that there are grains of sand on earth. (Think about that one for a moment).
Think that power can help us all bring the current economy to great abundance, justice and value for all?
I think so.
6. Find your gifts and opportunities to SHARE what you have to offer.
Love and wisdom want to spread. That is THEIR nature. So look for gentle ways to help others, practical as needed, but most of all, the deeper assistance we all offer each other with words of encouragement, wisdom, appreciation and love. Love is one of those things that only grows the more you give it away.
And it creates a world around you in which people are happier, more cooperative and more fun.
But you know all this. Don't you? At some level? Of course!
7. Be gentle with yourself . We all can get impatient, caught up in our own minds and concerns, and so on. And OF COURSE we will lose touch with all this insight and wisdom just in the normal course of life. In addition to that, our circumstances may take a sudden turn for the worse that may throw us off balance for some time. That's fine. That's life. That's the game. Enjoy it. Get better at it with time. Aim to master it. Happiness is only, right now, one thought away.
My Own Plan (or The Inner Mission of My Gallery)
I am an artist and that's what I do. That's what I sell as well, paintings.
But more than that, I am a human being, a soul that wants to learn and grow.
So the main mission of my gallery is not to make a buck, or even to show my work. It's to offer something of value to people. The art is part of it, but I would like my gallery to be a place where people can find joy, hope, love, inspiration, peace and encouragement.
I hope to be an agent in that process as much as I can. One challenge I can predict are those who may walk in who are discouraged, especially by the economy, but also by any of a number of life circumstances. If they speak in that manner, or even suggest that I have made a mistake in opening a business (and some will) I hope to find the right words to lift our spirits together. It will be a fun challenge, at the least.
I suspect that working in an artist-owned gallery will be much like being a hair stylist or a barkeeper: it's a great venue for meeting new people and a little informal counseling, sharing and encouragement. If people walk out with more hope than they came in with, I will know I am succeeding in my business. And I feel confident that this is the best I can do for myself as well.
So, this my personal "experiment" for 2010 as I undertake a new venture:
to do my best to paint my life as full.